Comments on: About Us http://www.zilledefeu.com fetish and kink, spanking and sex - in words and pictures Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:13:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Smiling Devil http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-3334 Smiling Devil Thu, 25 Jun 2009 08:47:11 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-3334 Hi Zille, I haven't met you, but I have read some of your comments of Fetlife and other blogs. I didn't realize you had such a wealth of writing to share! Caroline Grey mentioned your blog in one of her posts, and that's how I found your blog. I like your writing style and insight and honesty. So, I went all the way back to the beginning of the archives (call me crazy). Thanks for sharing your work. SD Hi Zille,

I haven’t met you, but I have read some of your comments of Fetlife and other blogs. I didn’t realize you had such a wealth of writing to share! Caroline Grey mentioned your blog in one of her posts, and that’s how I found your blog. I like your writing style and insight and honesty. So, I went all the way back to the beginning of the archives (call me crazy). Thanks for sharing your work.

SD

]]> By: Zille http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-2928 Zille Tue, 07 Apr 2009 20:53:36 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-2928 My response to Louise: I was indeed with a wonderful butch woman, Alexi, in 2000, and we did <a target="_blank" href="http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=903914-0001&PA=1702300" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">DarkPlay.net</a> together, which is a part of the CyberDyke network. After Alexi and I broke up -- after seven years; five of which were documented on our site DarkPlay -- I kept doing the site for a while, and had a few girlfriends who came on the site during that period. But then I started dating a guy (I was always bisexual) and we got into a 24/7 Master/slave relationship -- and that meant I couldn't really be having sex with random assorted gals anymore! ;) I didn't want to turn DarkPlay into a het BDSM site, after all those years of it being a site lesbians could count on for porn made for them, and of course I was dedicated to keeping it real, and could only document what was happening in my own life, which was very much about me and my Master at that time. So I gave ownership of the site to CyberDyke. I still remain friends with all the great people over at CyberDyke, and sometimes work for them as a photographer. You were in no way insulting in the way you phrased your question! It's a reasonable one, and you were very polite about it. There have been a number of women who were much less polite! There are some great lesbian-produced sites out there now -- many more than there were in 2000! First off, CyberDyke is still going strong! Then there's: crashpadseries.com, gooddykeporn.com, nofauxxx.com, and my FTM friend Buck: transexual-man.com. Good luck finding some hot porn to watch with your partner! ~Zille My response to Louise:

I was indeed with a wonderful butch woman, Alexi, in 2000, and we did
DarkPlay.net together, which is a part of the CyberDyke network.

After Alexi and I broke up — after seven years; five of which were documented on our site DarkPlay — I kept doing the site for a while, and had a few girlfriends who came on the site during that period.

But then I started dating a guy (I was always bisexual) and we got into a 24/7 Master/slave relationship — and that meant I couldn’t really be having sex with random assorted gals anymore! ;)

I didn’t want to turn DarkPlay into a het BDSM site, after all those years of it being a site lesbians could count on for porn made for them, and of course I was dedicated to keeping it real, and could only document what was happening in my own life, which was very much about me and my Master at that time. So I gave ownership of the site to CyberDyke. I still remain friends with all the great people over at CyberDyke, and sometimes work for them as a photographer.

You were in no way insulting in the way you phrased your question! It’s a reasonable one, and you were very polite about it. There have been a number of women who were much less polite!

There are some great lesbian-produced sites out there now — many more than there were in 2000!

First off, CyberDyke is still going strong!

Then there’s: crashpadseries.com, gooddykeporn.com, nofauxxx.com, and my FTM friend Buck: transexual-man.com.

Good luck finding some hot porn to watch with your partner!

~Zille

]]> By: Louise http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-1467 Louise Fri, 10 Oct 2008 22:15:03 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-1467 I was on the cyber dykes website back in 2000, and recently went looking for it again because my partner is in transition (FTM). I apologize in advance for my question, but...were you with a very butch woman back then? that is very personal and probably insulting to you, so you don't have to answer. but I'm looking for any lesbian/butch/alt websites preferably managed by women, and I thought of you right away. I always enjoyed your website. if you are no longer involved with cyber dykes, would you happen to know any butch or trannie websites that are not insulting to us lesbians? thanks for any help you can provide. I hope all is going well with you thanks again. Louise I was on the cyber dykes website back in 2000, and recently went looking for it again because my partner is in transition (FTM). I apologize in advance for my question, but…were you with a very butch woman back then? that is very personal and probably insulting to you, so you don’t have to answer. but I’m looking for any lesbian/butch/alt websites preferably managed by women, and I thought of you right away. I always enjoyed your website. if you are no longer involved with cyber dykes, would you happen to know any butch or trannie websites that are not insulting to us lesbians? thanks for any help you can provide. I hope all is going well with you thanks again.

Louise

]]> By: walter http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-11 walter Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:23:58 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-11 good blog good blog

]]> By: Raven Sutherland http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Raven Sutherland Thu, 19 Jun 2008 13:55:12 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-10 Wow Zille... I logged into my LJ to see if it was still active, and noticed that you had closed your journal. Came to take a peek over here and I am just blown away... both by the changes in your life and the changes in my life over the past couple of years. Congratulations on everything you have achieved, including your marriage! Much love ~R~ Wow Zille… I logged into my LJ to see if it was still active, and noticed that you had closed your journal. Came to take a peek over here and I am just blown away… both by the changes in your life and the changes in my life over the past couple of years. Congratulations on everything you have achieved, including your marriage!

Much love
~R~

]]> By: Zille http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Zille Tue, 15 Apr 2008 00:54:43 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-9 Sharon -- thank you! No one could ask for a better compliment! :D Sharon — thank you! No one could ask for a better compliment! :D

]]> By: Sharon http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-8 Sharon Mon, 14 Apr 2008 23:52:48 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-8 WHEN I READ YOU I READ ME! I ENJOY YOUR BLOG AND I WILL CONTINUE TO BE READING-THANKS WHEN I READ YOU I READ ME! I ENJOY YOUR BLOG AND I WILL CONTINUE TO BE READING-THANKS

]]> By: gevaar http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-6 gevaar Wed, 06 Feb 2008 16:00:47 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-6 I'm am sure you will like it over here. I just finished moving my last blog (I have 6) from Blogger to WP. I have both hosted (.com) and self hosted (.org) WP blogs and could not be happier. My first Blog was a LJ blog. My newest blog is a BDSM erotic poetry site; deviant poetry. WP makes it too simple to loose yourself in blogging. I keep telling my friends I have a life ... really. if web log = blog then does fetish log = flog? I think I feel a 7th blog coming on Happy blogging! I’m am sure you will like it over here. I just finished moving my last blog (I have 6) from Blogger to WP. I have both hosted (.com) and self hosted (.org) WP blogs and could not be happier. My first Blog was a LJ blog. My newest blog is a BDSM erotic poetry site; deviant poetry. WP makes it too simple to loose yourself in blogging. I keep telling my friends I have a life … really.

if web log = blog
then does fetish log = flog?

I think I feel a 7th blog coming on

Happy blogging!

]]> By: Zille http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-7 Zille Tue, 05 Feb 2008 21:59:55 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-7 Thank you, gevaar! I've just moved over to WP from LJ, and you're my first WP comment! I shall try to stay in the "not stereotypical" catagory! Thank you, gevaar! I’ve just moved over to WP from LJ, and you’re my first WP comment!

I shall try to stay in the “not stereotypical” catagory!

]]> By: gevaar http://www.zilledefeu.com/about-authors/comment-page-1/#comment-5 gevaar Tue, 05 Feb 2008 20:04:21 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?page_id=31#comment-5 As BDSM sites go, you have a really interesting one. It is nice to see something that is content savvy and not stereotypical. I'll be lurking in the background. Thanks again. As BDSM sites go, you have a really interesting one. It is nice to see something that is content savvy and not stereotypical. I’ll be lurking in the background. Thanks again.

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