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	<title>Zille Defeu's Fetish Fantasies &#187; personal growth</title>
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		<title>(No) Bruises for the New Year!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 03:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mr Defeu has made my day &#8212; and, heh heh, my year, by insisting I get dressed in a schoolgirl uniform today, and then having a hot, intense scene with me! Once I had gotten dressed in a navy pinafore, blazer, white shirt, striped tie, and navy regulation knickers and navy over-the-knee socks, hair up [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A long, hard strapping with his leather belt</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:16:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back to the scene: he has a thick black leather belt. It is applied over and over and over again to my bottom. They are not light blows, and I am not quiet.  And then the cane: the very first stroke made me realize that my bottom felt hot and swollen to the point of bursting...]]></description>
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		<title>To love, to honour, to obey and to serve</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 01:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[He came really hard. I've noticed with our real-life punishments as well, that this sort of thing really turns him on. He is so careful with it, and with me, but if we keep building up our trust, we could work our way up to some really dark scenes -- but not play-scenes, real life discipline and punishments. It makes me all shivery when I think of the possibilities.]]></description>
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		<title>Firsts Fridays: First spanking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 00:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[He sighed and picked her up; she stopped crying and looked suddenly happy. The expression did not last. He turned her in his arms as he sat down on a straight chair, got a firm grip on her, and walloped her right buttock. She yelped. And struggled. He got her more firmly, placing his right leg over both of hers, and applied his hand smartly to her left cheek. Then he alternated sides, stopping with ten spanks.]]></description>
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		<title>A taste of the strap and the cane</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 22:52:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The cane soon had me yelping and properly squirming; held down by arm and leg in the sexiest sort of embrace: the one that doesn't let me wriggle away.]]></description>
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		<title>“Like A Virgin, Oooh, Spanked For The Very 1st Time”</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 00:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This past weekend Mr Defeu and I had this most lovely, amazing scene, which I just had to share with you lot! I said in a previous post that we haven’t been able to play much, recently, but that I’d been finding surprise benefits to that. We managed to grab some playtime this past weekend, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Upside Of Not Playing Much</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 07:08:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is actually true that every cloud has its silver lining – at least within the spankoverse. Mr Defeu and I have not had overmuch playtime in the past few months – travel (including two weddings where we were in hotels surrounded by family members!) and poor health and other factors have all taken their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sunday scene &amp; mentation on my masochism&#8211;part II</title>
		<link>http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/sunday-scene-mentation-on-my-masochism-part-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 21:01:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[there are indeed times when a stroke hits just right, and I process it as pleasure. Or I get a spanking that amps things up slowly, just right yet again, and I can actually come from it]]></description>
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		<title>Sunday scene &amp; mentation on my masochism &#8212; part I</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 23:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[And thus I was properly sobbing when he finally pushed himself inside me. And, best of all, some of the pain from the cane strokes was still actually cresting in my nervous system as he entered me. It was like being penetrated by both his cock and the pain at the same time.]]></description>
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		<title>Lost &amp; Found: Educational Video Report #1 – “A Private Punishment”</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 22:17:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[the fact is that when I see a caning, no matter what my mind does (which is mostly go in two directions at once: fear and longing) my body reacts by all the classic symptoms of arousal: my breasts grow more sensitive and ache to be touched, my clitoris and labia get swollen and hungry, and my pussy gets wet and feels so empty. I have no control over that reaction.]]></description>
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