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		<title>A quick note on a new name</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 19:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has been becoming more and more obvious to me that the man you know as “my Master” and I are really less Master-and-slave these days, and more two people in a discipline-based relationship.
When he and I started out, I was coming from the BDSM world, and those terms just made sense to me. Our [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fantasizing about the pain</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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I don’t know when I first started this change, but I was just thinking about it last night (after having a lovely self-inflicted orgasm!) and I am perplexed but delighted by it.
Once I admitted to myself that I was interested in that sort of thing, spankings and loss of power and all that good stuff [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A perfect spanking</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 04:36:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The past two scenes have seen a special growth in my Master’s and my relationship, through spanking.
There’s a sentence that needs an explanation, if ever there was!
I continue on my journey of discovering that I can be completely satisfied by CP, not needing sex to happen to feel that a scene is “complete.” My fantasies [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Quitting spanking &#8211; and returning</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 19:55:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[My Bottom Smarts]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=1859</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last Sunday, Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts asked:
Have you ever decided to give up spanking? If so, for what reasons? Did you expect to walk away forever or did you anticipate a temporary abstinence? Why did you return?
Well, I started my reply, but then got to busy to get it up in time, so [...]]]></description>
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		<title>New World Order</title>
		<link>http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/new-world-order/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 00:55:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My Master and I have been going through quite a lot, emotionally, these past few months.  He’s not happy in his job at the moment, and what with my father not doing well and a number of other serious emotional things, it’s been very hard for us to manage even being a happy husband [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s the attention, stupid!*</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 17:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An excellent post (as always) from The Spanking Writers includes a (more introspective than I ever imagined) quote from Scary Spice:
The anticipation was worse than the punishment. I knew exactly what was coming. I’d walk into a silent room, bend over, get smacked (by his hand or a belt), then stand up and walk out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>An interesting discussion of real life spanking/CP</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 22:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=1774</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Amazon.com is the last place I would have expected to find a far-ranging and at times very intelligent discussion of spanking  &#8212; not the consensual adult kind, but the actual raising-your-child kind, upon which us pervy adults base most of our role-play.
The discussion starts out basically as an advertisement for the No-Spank unilateralists.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>New Adventures in Spanking (Part 3)</title>
		<link>http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/new-adventures-in-spanking-part-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 03:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=1732</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So, after Mystery Minx and my Master (Now if we can get Miss Maggie Mayhem to join us, we’ll have some serious alliteration happening! Also, I can’t imagine how much trouble we would all get in!  My Master would have to call for back-up!) came down to join me at the café, we all [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Just one of *those* scenes… (Part Two)</title>
		<link>http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/just-one-of-those-scenes-part-two/</link>
		<comments>http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/just-one-of-those-scenes-part-two/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 02:28:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, 
to continue with the caning &#8230; I was still quaking in my spandex after the last series of Six-O-The-Bests, but the final twelve were yet to come.  This was back to the Senior cane, which would have seemed like a walk in the park after the last cane (the bamboo root one!), but [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>5</slash:comments>
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		<title>&#8220;Violence, Sex, and S/M&#8221; &#8211; a response</title>
		<link>http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/violence-sex-and-sm-a-response/</link>
		<comments>http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/violence-sex-and-sm-a-response/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 21:28:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=1607</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Humans often process horror by sexualizing it. It is not decadent. It is not trite. It is, in fact, adaptive. It is part of the human process of healing.]]></description>
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