Zille Defeu’s Fetish Fantasies

I was wandering around the interwebs last night — I don’t even remember what I was looking for — and I found this wonderful page giving explicit instructions on how to deep throat when you give a man a blowjob.

Here for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on how to deep throat a penis. Position is important; you’ll want to in position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position for beginners is with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach along side. You can prop yourself up on your elbows.

The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can’t stress this enough. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it is well lubricated. Once you’re in position, slightly tilt your head back and extend the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. Flatten the back of your tongue just as you would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat. (Extending your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Force your throat open as you would if you were yawning. (contrary to popular belief, you don’t ‘relax’ your throat muscles to perform deep-throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening for the penis to enter)

Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you can. Eventually you’ll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat

One thing to remember is when you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance and will need to give a little extra ‘push’ to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further, then pull your tongue back in your mouth, pulling the penis along with it.

You contact lens wearers will no doubt remember the difficulty you had overcoming the involuntary urge to blink the first few times you tried to put in your lenses, but with practice and patience it became very easy to do. The same applies to deep-throating! Be patient and practice the technique as often as possible.

After you’ve learned to take in the entire length, you can begin working on some ‘advanced techniques’ that will add even more pleasure. Some of these techniques are letting you partner ejaculate with the entire length of his penis in your throat.

If you don’t like the taste of cum, this is a great technique because the head of his penis will be well past the taste buds on the back of you tongue when he ejaculates. You’ll also be able to perform a ‘throat massage’ on his penis while it’s in your throat.

This technique will drive your partner wild with passion as your throat muscles massage his penis. This is accomplished by actually making a swallowing motion while the entire length of his penis is deep in your throat. You’ll also be able to lick his balls while he’s in your throat.

If you’ve never been deep-throated, you’re probably wondering what it really feels like. Most men report that they feel a ‘pleasurable ring of tightness’ around the circumference of the penis just below the head with the most pleasurable sensation focused on the underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft. Remember: lubrication, extend tongue, flatten back of tongue, force throat muscles open, go slow and be patient!

While learning deep-throat, it’s better that the giver maintain the ‘superior’ position, i.e. where the giver controls the depth and frequency of penetration. After you’ve become very comfortable with taking a penis deep in your throat, you’ll be able to accept a more passive roll and let your partner control the depth. An excellent position for this is you lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed. Your partner will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes in this position. This position provides an excellent view of your neck and throat for your partner. One of the most exciting visual aspects of deep-throat is your partner can watch your neck and throat expand and bulge as the penis slides in deep.

I’m doing pretty okay with Mr Defeu — I often take him all in during a blowjob, but it’s only for a short period of time, and then I go back to the patented “hands on the base, mouth working around the head” technique that he certainly doesn’t complain about (especially when I use the other hand to stroke his balls)!

But I have noticed that during the brief period that I deep throat him, he reeeeaaally likes it.

So methinks it’s time to practice this skill more!

I’ll do it on my own, but maybe after he reads this post, he’ll decide that this should become part of my training…?

If your head is tilted back, the saliva will run down your throat and interfere with your breathing – so you’ll have to take the dildo out and clear your mouth and throat from time to time. Try sliding the dildo in a little farther. By now you’ve probably got it to the point where you’ll start to gag. When you feel like you’re going to gag, try swallowing – this usually stops the gag reflex. If it doesn’t, pull out the dildo and relax. Be sure to concentrate on the feelings and physical reactions your body has when you trigger the gag reflex. You want to deliberately trigger your gag reflex so that you can learn what causes it, recognize it’s warning signs, and ultimately control it. The entire point to these exercises is for you to learn to recognize your body’s natural reactions. By recognizing them you can control them.

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