man with a maid, submission for dummies, cool blowjob image
October 24th, 2008 | Author: Zille
This end-of-the-week post is all about closing some tabs in my browser; some things I’ve been holding on to, to share with you lot….
As you may recall, I recently did a post about Victorian erotica I have known and loved. Well, the Spankboss over at SpankingBlog liked the post enough to bring it to the attention of his readers, and an enjoyable discussion has ensued: some thoughts on “A Man With a Maid”
Darling kaya brought this excellent blog post, by a really wonderful blogger whom I can’t believe I haven’t found before now: Kitten In Chains discusses Submission for Dummies.
Here’s another great post about Master/slave relationships by her.
Finally, I found the coolest blowjob picture ever! From the same gallery that contributed two hot pictures to Paul’s wonderful conclusion of A Boy and a Good (Bad) Girl, comes this shot which I think proves that porn can become art very easily….
I’m sure all you spankos and other random assorted perverts can imagine yourself standing right behind that girl, while she sucks that fellow off, for your own various nefarious purposes…!
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Zille, I picked up Kitten in chains from Kaya’s blog, she is ( Kaya) certainly something else.
I’d be enjoying that picture more if her butt was red or striped.
Love and warm hugs,
Paul.
While i luv the photos (a lot) i dislike the turm Pervert! We have a KINK. We are not Perverts!
Well, I don’t know about you, but *I* am a pervert! And so is my Master. And we are both very happily perverts!
But I think this is a case of vocabulary getting in the way of communication. I’m part of the amorphous group of people who have reclaimed the term “pervert” as a good thing to be, just like the new term, “kinkster”.
In my world, there are good perverts (people who indulge their kinks in a self-aware, consensual way) and bad perverts (people who deny their kinks so they come out in negative ways, or people like peeping toms or flashers (or much worse) who perform unconsensual acts.
But regardless of whether one is a good pervert or a bad one … well, one is still a pervert!
I feel like there has been a certain amount of term inflation when it comes to the relationship between ‘kink’ and ‘perversion’. It used to be people would say that ‘kink is using a feather in the bedroom, perversion is using the whole chicken.’ and while noone I know would actually use a chicken, I think there is a desire to elevate one’s sexual adventures above the middle class mudanity of a little light tickling.
Great pic but it needs a caption, something like “Sucking eh!”
“Pervert” is just a word, as is “kink.” Words don’t have any inherent meaning besides the meaning we ascribe to them. If, to any given person, “pervert” has positive connotation, then it’s a positive word. It’s like the word “dirty.” It has some negative sexual connotations, but how many sex bloggers or readers aren’t dirty?
As for the photo, I am quite enticed. And yes, my purposes are quite various and nefarious, though I’d be fucking the girl, not spanking her. OK, I’d spank her first, then fuck her.
Bill — excellent point, as always! I agree 100%!
Fyre — Oh, I haven’t heard from you in forever, Fyre! I guess my recent posts haven’t been pun-worthy!
Anyway, gentle teasing aside, it’s lovely to see you again! Hope you and your girl are both doing very well! 
Dylan — Yes, you’re right — of course the words mean something different to everyone. I remember I was shooting content for a webmistress, and she kept describing the content with a word (“nasty”) which just made me shudder every time I read it — and it cropped up in pretty much every other sentence on the site. I never spoke to her about it — I mean, it was her site, she made the call on the text she used to promote it — and I always just assumed that that word really “worked” for her.
(To clarify: I don’t have anything against the word “nasty,” on it’s own. I quite like Janet Jackson’s song, “Nasty Boys.” But for me, the word means something along the lines of “gross” and disgusting.” I’m far, far more likely to say something like “Ewwww! That’s nasty!” in reference to someone having puked in the subway, or my friends oversharing the details of digestion-gone-wrong, than I am to say, “Hey Sailor — come over here and give me some hot nasty sex!”)