Comments on: New World Order http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/new-world-order/ fetish and kink, spanking and sex - in words and pictures Fri, 10 Feb 2012 11:33:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Bridget http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/new-world-order/comment-page-1/#comment-3820 Bridget Sat, 07 Nov 2009 05:17:06 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=1844#comment-3820 Zille, I really relate to this because we have been going through similar issues. Although our resolution wasn't identical, the basic premise of letting go of fairness and not being hung up on issues such as, "I let that go last time how can I punish her for it this time?" played a big role for us. Master has also implemented a sliding scale for us, so he feels free to punish me more frequently and not always severely. He also has lightened up on his own prior rules of never allowing sex or orgasms after a punishment. I will be interested to see how it goes for you, and happy things are looking up! Zille,

I really relate to this because we have been going through similar issues. Although our resolution wasn’t identical, the basic premise of letting go of fairness and not being hung up on issues such as, “I let that go last time how can I punish her for it this time?” played a big role for us.

Master has also implemented a sliding scale for us, so he feels free to punish me more frequently and not always severely. He also has lightened up on his own prior rules of never allowing sex or orgasms after a punishment. I will be interested to see how it goes for you, and happy things are looking up!

]]> By: Abel http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/new-world-order/comment-page-1/#comment-3819 Abel Fri, 06 Nov 2009 08:04:48 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=1844#comment-3819 I'd rather imagine that the 'discipline' element of a relationship evolves over time for *all* kinky couples, as they develop and change (together and as individuals) and as the outside world brings its oft-unwelcome pressures to bear. Sending big hugs to you both... I’d rather imagine that the ‘discipline’ element of a relationship evolves over time for *all* kinky couples, as they develop and change (together and as individuals) and as the outside world brings its oft-unwelcome pressures to bear.

Sending big hugs to you both…

]]> By: Paul http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/new-world-order/comment-page-1/#comment-3816 Paul Wed, 04 Nov 2009 15:59:00 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=1844#comment-3816 Zille, so good to hear that things are getting back on track again, I am truly delighted for you both. :D In every partnership the road can and often does get bumpy, so glad that you are communicating, as I look round, I sometimes think that is a lost art. ;) I hope that your Master's work prospects improve and that you take staps to deal with your depression. :) Take care both of you, please. :D Love and warm hugs, Paul. Zille, so good to hear that things are getting back on track again, I am truly delighted for you both. :D
In every partnership the road can and often does get bumpy, so glad that you are communicating, as I look round, I sometimes think that is a lost art. ;)
I hope that your Master’s work prospects improve and that you take staps to deal with your depression. :)
Take care both of you, please. :D
Love and warm hugs,
Paul.

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