Pushing aside her panties so you can shove yourself inside
January 5th, 2011 | Author: Zille
The very nice Bondage Blog just linked to my 1970′s Spanking Party post. So I wandered over to the site to look ’round, and immediately found an anime pic which totally does it for me:
What I like in the above image:
- The knickers roughly shoved aside for penetration. Sex is better NOT naked!
- The anime jizz. I’ve been totally corrupted by a combination of Victorian and anime porn (who knew those had anything in common?!), and so my fantasies have copious ejaculate flying everywhere.
- The fact that time was taken to draw the guy as out of shape. I love the “humiliation” factor there — hot young girl being used by older guy. I’d actually much rather see that than a hot porn stud any day of the week. It’s just more where I’m at.
- The position, too. She is so helpless on his lap like that. It makes her look really small, and him really in control.
Kink.com, despite their usual focus on nudity (yawn), do have a very good shot of this fetish:
(Also, can I just say I love the use of chiaroscuro in this image. It actually adds to how hot it is for me!)
I did not have the panties-pushed-aside fetish until I got together with Mr Defeu. But combining his fetishes for schoolgirl uniforms with authentic knickers and his spandex catsuit fetish with my endless desire for penetration (heehee, puts new meaning to: “You got your chocolate in my peanut butter!” “No, you got your peanut butter in my chocolate!”) soon lead to us both realizing that we’d much rather have sex where he was either pushing my regulation knickers to the side (or unzipping my catsuit crotch-zipper just enough) for roughly “taking” me.
Hmm, that last sentence calls for more thought on the matter. The fact is that I really would prefer to be playing at “consensual non-consent” (the “safe” and more comfortable term for “rape play”) than happily boinking away. There is time in my world for some consensual sex, but if I was to get a “bumper sticker” tattoo in the area over my ass, it would read, “I’d rather be pretending I don’t want to!” (“My other car is being raped” doesn’t have quite the right ring to it! Anyone have any other bumper sticker ideas?)
And here is where I think the Victorian and anime porn influences really do intersect and make me the girl I am today. Both the Victorians and the Japanese are a culture where “Good girls don’t,” and where it’s all about male desire, and women submitting. Whether it’s a lord of the manor with an unwilling maid-servant, or a tentacle-monster with a uniformed-schoolgirl, chances are great she’ll be moaning, “No, no, please don’t put it in there!”
And, given my druthers, I’ll be in a Victorian period gown (with corset and other period unmentionables, thank you!) or schoolgirl uniform, moaning just the very same thing, as my clothing is shoved roughly out of the way, so proper phallic item can be pushed even more roughly inside me.
Yes, now that is what I like!
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The proper phallic item? Don’t tell me – you have a proper Victorian wooden dildo????
Er, no, that was not intended as an observation regarding Mr. Defeu. I’m sure his proper phallic item isn’t made from a tree at all.
(In the kink.com pic, I love that it’s outside. Looks sort of like some places on the Bunker Trail in Golden Gate, although I can’t say I’ve looked at the bunkers from quite THAT angle.)
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Hi, Zille, it’s SpankingLib from twitter, and also from my blog victorian spanking. As you might guess from my bloggie wog’s name, I’m mad for the Victorians, so I really appreciated this post. Very clever and fun!
xoxox
Libby
Serenity – Well, sometimes Mr Defeu’s phallic item seems to be made of … wait for it … petrified wood!
I’d love to get a really old wooden dildo. It wouldn’t see any action, probably, though, since I’d cherish it too much to use it. Or I’d want to protect it with a condom, which would kill much of the point of using it in the first place!
I believe the kink.com pic was shot in Europe, but that does give me some great thoughts for the local bunkers…!
Libby — Thanks! Anyone who loves Victorians & their smut has excellent taste as far as I’m concerned!
It took me a long time to learn that showing my pleasure during sex isn’t a weakness of character, so I’m not letting go of it just yet – but there’ll always be a special place in my heart for the “oh, please, sir, not that!” sex and the lovely porn that comes with it.
And yes, clothes in porn improve everything.
Adele — I know all too many girls for whom that is the case. I have one ex-girlfriend who never made a peep during sex (until one fateful time when she did, but that’s another story!) because her first boyfriend made fun of her sex noises. It pissed me off so much — I did everything I could to encourage her to just let go — sex can be so much better when you let out your vocal expressions of feeling.
However, for me, the expressions of feeling that are along the line of “Oh, please, sir, not that!” are things I often say in the moments when I might moan with pleasure … so they do not keep me from showing my pleasure, they just put a mask I find sexy over the top of it. However, I luckily never had trouble showing pleasure in sex in the first place, so that mask is only a good thing for me.
I would argue that clothes improve everything in sex in general, never-mind porn. However, this is a specific kink Mr Defeu and I share, and I don’t expect everyone else to agree with it!
I’ve been following your blog for a while, but only just commenting for the first time (part of my new years resolution to stop lurking and start actually saying when things people write inspire me)
I really want to say something smart and intellegent about what you’ve written here, but as I have a stinking headache and a chest infection, smart and intellegent just aren’t happening, so I’m gonna go with
“I agree that sex can be hugely hotter when clothes are just pulled to one side, pushed outta the way etc, but for me it’s not about the consensual non-consent aspect (though that is a big kink for me anyways) it’s more about the raw passion, the I-have-to-have-you-right-now-and-i’m-not-going-to-waste-time-taking=clothes-off.”
Wow this is a really hot post! The partially dressed look says we are in such a state of passion we couldn’t wait to get undressed and just had to go at it then and there, clothes and all, like crazed weasels. Taking the time to get naked indicates a more deliberate state of mind. Like many spanking pervs I have a panties fetish; I love seeing a girl’s panties pulled down to her knees while giving her a spanking. The panties act a restraint for her legs, limiting kicking and making her wriggle her bottom more, adding wonderfully to the scene.