Comments on: Spanking and Daddy’s girls http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/spanking-and-daddys-girls/ fetish and kink, spanking and sex - in words and pictures Fri, 10 Feb 2012 11:33:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lola http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/spanking-and-daddys-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-1479 Lola Tue, 14 Oct 2008 22:29:08 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=815#comment-1479 Re: #2-- I've also found that being a "tops from the bottom" Daddy's girl isn't always the case with every ageplayer. It is, of course, extremely common, but there are also people who genuinely want to be good, perfect girls and still be in that little role. Of course, it's difficult for those folks to find tops because most Daddy doms like little girls who push back and need to be smacked back down and then snuggled after the smack, and most non-Daddy doms want to play with someone who's always in adult space, but if you can find a good hybrid things can be awfully fun! I think the misconception that you have to be a bratty sub to be in an ageplay relationship is really more a sign of the times. As you know, I prefer to play in an era in which children were *not* permitted to run wild. So yes, it's very possible to do serious D/s, and even M/s in an ageplay situation. Just something that person might want to think about... *goes off to join "spanked schoolgirls" Re: #2–

I’ve also found that being a “tops from the bottom” Daddy’s girl isn’t always the case with every ageplayer. It is, of course, extremely common, but there are also people who genuinely want to be good, perfect girls and still be in that little role. Of course, it’s difficult for those folks to find tops because most Daddy doms like little girls who push back and need to be smacked back down and then snuggled after the smack, and most non-Daddy doms want to play with someone who’s always in adult space, but if you can find a good hybrid things can be awfully fun! I think the misconception that you have to be a bratty sub to be in an ageplay relationship is really more a sign of the times. As you know, I prefer to play in an era in which children were *not* permitted to run wild. So yes, it’s very possible to do serious D/s, and even M/s in an ageplay situation. Just something that person might want to think about…

*goes off to join “spanked schoolgirls”

]]> By: Paul1510 http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/spanking-and-daddys-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-1473 Paul1510 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 18:28:11 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=815#comment-1473 Zille, the first exchange is really about labels, one of the things that I teach is that labels only fit where they touch. Those new to the scene or lifestyle tend to believe in labels, you and your Master would have to be covered in labels to fully express what you are, sensible people look at you and see two raving pervs doing what satisfies and makes them happy. When people try to categorise me I feel that they would like to stick a pin through me and stick me on a cork board over a Latin label. Labelling is the resort of lazy minds. On the second exchange, your answer is both correct and compassionate. Here is another case of labelling, Dom are seen as harsh and uncompromising, perhaps the result of Victorian novels or other such writing. No one goes into such a relationship blindly, those that do often are hurt or leave quickly and become wiser. Those who bully and will not listen are not Doms but abusers. Almost the first lesson a Dom must learn is to listen. Nice one girl. Love and warm hugs, Paul. Zille, the first exchange is really about labels, one of the things that I teach is that labels only fit where they touch.
Those new to the scene or lifestyle tend to believe in labels, you and your Master would have to be covered in labels to fully express what you are, sensible people look at you and see two raving pervs doing what satisfies and makes them happy.
When people try to categorise me I feel that they would like to stick a pin through me and stick me on a cork board over a Latin label.
Labelling is the resort of lazy minds.
On the second exchange, your answer is both correct and compassionate.
Here is another case of labelling, Dom are seen as harsh and uncompromising, perhaps the result of Victorian novels or other such writing.
No one goes into such a relationship blindly, those that do often are hurt or leave quickly and become wiser.
Those who bully and will not listen are not Doms but abusers.
Almost the first lesson a Dom must learn is to listen.
Nice one girl.
Love and warm hugs,
Paul.

]]> By: Zille http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/spanking-and-daddys-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-1472 Zille Tue, 14 Oct 2008 18:27:01 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=815#comment-1472 Greenwoman -- Yes, I think that's exactly it! Spanking is a perfectly reasonable thing for two people to do (esp. if it's strictly in the disciplinary mode) but those whips and chains, and people wearing collars and calling each other "Master" and "slave," (or worse, all that pretending to be animals!), and then they do things like drink each other's pee! It just ain't natural, I say! ;) Greenwoman — Yes, I think that’s exactly it! Spanking is a perfectly reasonable thing for two people to do (esp. if it’s strictly in the disciplinary mode) but those whips and chains, and people wearing collars and calling each other “Master” and “slave,” (or worse, all that pretending to be animals!), and then they do things like drink each other’s pee! It just ain’t natural, I say! ;)

]]> By: Greenwoman http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/spanking-and-daddys-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-1469 Greenwoman Tue, 14 Oct 2008 18:08:29 +0000 http://www.zilledefeu.com/?p=815#comment-1469 I have noted that some spankos get a testy about the bdsm label too. Always perplexes me. Its as if there's kink and then there's perverted. I guess that in their minds bdsm is perversion, but spanking is just souped up nookie? *grins* Silly if you ask me. *chuckles* I have noted that some spankos get a testy about the bdsm label too. Always perplexes me. Its as if there’s kink and then there’s perverted. I guess that in their minds bdsm is perversion, but spanking is just souped up nookie? *grins* Silly if you ask me. *chuckles*

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