Zille Defeu’s Fetish Fantasies

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Ludwig has just paid me an incredible compliment by naming me as one of his Dirty Half-Dozen best spanking blogs — either missing the opportunity to call them “Six of the Best” in the British-style, or leaving me to fall squarely in that trap, I’m not sure which! All I know is, I’m very flattered, and in excellent company!

Dave from The Cherry Red Report just pointed out to me that you can finally get Shadow Lane’s film Starter Wife – Trophy Wife Revenge Match on video on demand, watching affordable clips. If you’ve been waiting for that option, wait no longer! (And let me know what you think of it! I’m very proud of it!)

Following yesterday’s post, here’s a small taste of what happened when Irelynn and I got caught fighting in our bunk beds…

Hello there, my dear Readers. I’m utterly worn out from my time dealing with my family, so this isn’t going to be the proper post I’d like to do, but I just wanted to do a small post thanking you all for being wonderful friends and fans this past year.

This wasn’t an easy year for me. At this time last year I was in a really bad place, and in the beginning of the year Mr Defeu and I had some real hard spots. I am really proud of the fact that despite the bad stuff I kept this blog going, and I think the reward is that, with the hard patches worked through, we are in a wonderful place and ready to have a brilliant new year — and I’m so ready to be back to this blog — which is really a very important part of my life — in a much more meaningful way in the coming year.

Kaya sums up how she feels about her Master S … which is just how I feel about Mr Defeu:

He makes me feel loved, and cherished. He makes me feel beautiful and wanted. He makes me feel special and worthy. He’s my companion, my lover. He makes me laugh, sometimes until I cry. I never want for a hug or a kiss. I’m never without someone to talk to, a warm body to snuggle, a welcoming lap to slide onto, loving eyes to look into.

Shadowlane has done a delightful 12 Days of Christmas which ends up at a teaser for the video Mr Defeu and I just did for them. (And don’t I look quite distressed about the over-girdle spanking I’m getting, there!)

Delicious Pandora Blake has been outdoing herself recently with excellent posts — thought-provoking and sexy — and Abel & Haron agree! I’ll just like to her site as a whole, because I can’t choose just one to link to. She also had some very kind words to say about me — thank you, darling girl!

Zille is currently in the running for this year’s New Spankee award at the Spanking Spot, although she’s not a new spankee – she’s been running BDSM and fetish porn sites for years as a producer and photographer, and is only new to the niche world of pure spanking sites. Speaking as a producer/director myself, I can tell you that she’s an absolute star to work with – totally professional, very talented and a complete sweetheart. Please do vote for her – she’s one of the pioneers of queer and female-gaze porn, a total hottie and a gorgeous person to boot, and it would be great to give her credit where it’s due.

Not to jinx myself, the New Spankee of the Year vote is going well for me at the moment, and I am cautiously hopeful! (This is not to say that I couldn’t still loose at the last minute, so please take a moment to vote, if you haven’t yet!) I am not sure exactly how I will thank everyone if I DO win, but I have some thoughts on the matter that I’m tossing around in my head. A free video of me being spanked is one of my ideas….

Speaking of free videos, Ludwig & Kaelah have a free spanking video treat for everyone happening right now at their site. Mr Defeu and I have been barely capable of making tea for ourselves the past few days, so we haven’t seen it yet, but it’s high on the priority list!

Okay, for “not a proper post” this has been going on reasonably long! Hopefully, posts in this coming year will just flow out as easily as this one has done. Thank you for sticking with me during a year when I was barely around, and for then for voting for me at the end of this missing year! You are the best friends and fans a girl could hope for, and I appreciate you all very much!

Oh! Mr Defeu has been making some noises about writing for this blog. The best thing I could think of for the coming year would be for him to join me here. Please take a moment to let him know that he is wanted not just by me, but that you would all like to hear his side of the story, too!

I’ve got some tabs to close in my browser, so here’s a “things to share” hodge-podge for you lot!

I missed My Bottom Smarts Sunday Brunch this weekend because I didn’t actually get online enough to answer the excellent question:

It’s been said that clothes make the man (or woman). Do you or you partner dress for a spanking? Or do you perhaps adapt the spanking to your mode of dress? Does wearing certain clothes affect your spanking experiences? If so, how?

Mr. Defeu really introduced me to dressing for “sex.” (By which I mean spanking, role-play, and everything that generally follows, for us!) Oh, sure, I’d enjoyed playing dress-up role-play in the past, and I was in no way loathe to wear whatever my partner wanted to see me in, but “sex” generally happened in the buff.

With Mr. Defeu at first I was really confused because we never had naked sex. I was in my schoolgirl uniform, or a spandex catsuit, or equestrienne garb, but us enjoying some spanky-bot-bot and rumpy-pumpy was almost never done au naturale. It made me wonder if he didn’t like my body, or something.

Fast-forward to now. He’s utterly corrupted me! Naked spanking and sex is very rare for us – and even if he is willing, I’ll generally be the person to say, “Oh … shouldn’t I go put something on…?” *

Well – I’m the one who is not naked. He is usually naked or just in a pair of shorts. I get this from a practical viewpoint (i.e., that he is one of those people who is always warm, and he’s doing lots of physical labour, so wearing a tweed suit every time we play might be impractical. Also, when it’s time for things to go into places, he’s ready to put them there) but … darn it, I’d really like him to wear outfits for me more often!

So, I’m registering my complaint now! I’d like to see Mr. Defeu in *his* riding clothes (OMG, boots!) or period clothing (Victorian, Elizabethan, whatever, I’ll role with it!) or the finest in headmaster fashions (just the occasional tweed is all I ask!) … or just even a nice suit, with one of those pairs of very sexy men’s dress shoes he owns. (I’m not a foot/shoe fetishist. But expensive men’s footwear makes my brain go melty. If I’m going to lick someone’s boots, give me some bespoke hand-made dress shoes from Jermyn Street, thankyouverymuch!)

As for the spanking that occurs spontaneously, when one is already dressed … well, those obviously are adapted as needed. “Necessity is the mother of invention,” and all. But so far we haven’t found an outfit I couldn’t be spanked in. Although the one time he caned me over a bustle, I did end up collapsing in laughter because it made such a terrible noise, but hurt not a bit! (The skirts and bustle were lifted soon thereafter!)

*For those ladies who might not get it and are wanting a purely practical explanation: I feel cold most of the time. This means that I’m almost never cold going into a scene, now. My poor cold feet have white schoolgirl socks on! Me being cold had actually gotten in the way of scenes, in the past. Also, being clothed means that one can keep one’s bra on for bouncy activities like being in “cowgirl” position. I was always having to cross my arm under my chest, because my tits bouncing all over the place is actually painful to me. (Not good painful – just distracting and annoying painful.) Now I can have them supported, and have both hands free … for stuff…!

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Also, Kaya has always written well about sex, but she just keeps getting better….

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And Kaelah has written a wonderful article about her first punishment.

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(The spankosphere has had some brilliant articles recently, but many of them are now sufficiently “old” by ‘net standards that I’m embarrassed to bring them up! I should get over that and just highlight the articles I’ve enjoyed over the past weeks/months!)