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		<title>Do you like spanking? Do *I* like spanking?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 19:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the BDSM world, that’s a huge no-no. The goal is to alchemically transform the raw stuff of pain into shimmering golden threads of pleasure – and if you don’t, the bottom feels inferior and the Top feels they have failed their bottom, and everyone goes home unhappy.]]></description>
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		<title>A new blog, and some bad news&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 18:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, you lot, I apologise for being away, but I&#8217;m afraid I have an excuse. I&#8217;ve written about it here, and all future writings about that topic will be over there, too. No, I&#8217;m not being all cryptic. My Master was in a bad car accident, and I am going to be dealing with the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Discipline in practice, not just theory…</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 22:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A very, very intense caning followed, and I ended up completely incapable of staying in position, writhing around in the intense pain and burning heat as my bottom was striped from the top of the fleshy part to the where it meets my thighs.  I was not caring about how much noise I was making by that point in time]]></description>
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		<title>The difference between discipline &amp; punishment</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 20:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ In a working D/s relationship, punishment is not given UNLESS the submissive has done something to earn it. By definition, it must not be enjoyable -- or else that would encourage the submissive to repeat performances to get attention and satisfaction -- which would rather destroy the whole point of the exercise! So, you see, while disciplining someone can be punishment, not all discipline is punishment. Indeed, my Master has given me many discipline sessions that were enjoyable to me ]]></description>
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		<title>Sunday Strapping (When Tawses Attack!)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 00:02:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[But, eventually, there came the stroke that undid me, and as the blows were coming down relentlessly, remorselessly I couldn’t regain my masochistic balance, and so ended up yelping, dancing from foot to foot, and finally, crying.  He got in a goodly number after the crying started.  ]]></description>
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		<title>My first punishment of the new year</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 20:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[my ass was as weal-ed and bruised as it has ever been.  I got into that headspace where I could just keep taking it and taking it, no matter how painful the cane or tawse strokes were – and I just kept talking back to him, daring him to beat me harder with every word and look.  He wanted to get me to submit to him, by kissing the tawse he was beating me with, but I was feeling so naughty and wilful that at one point, when he held it out for a kiss after a dozen or so hard strokes, I actually bit it!]]></description>
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		<title>Seven random things</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 19:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, I managed to avoid this meme when kaya tagged all her readers, but now Mollena has tagged me in a most unequivocal way, so here I go: seven random things you didn’t know about me (but do now) I love dinosaurs, and my favorite is Triceratops &#8212; because he was an herbivore, but could [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Educational discipline and anal sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 00:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[He pushed into my ass and he wasn’t particularly gentle.  There were some moments of discomfort, and I cherished them, loving the pain he was giving me with his cock, loving that what hurt me only gave him pleasure...]]></description>
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		<title>Spanking and Daddy&#8217;s girls</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[But if you do want to learn to give up control, then talk to your Dom and tell him all of your concerns ... and then leave it in his hands.  If he is as experienced as you say, he will know how to handle you, know how to push you just over your limits but not too far. Submission is about "letting go" the need and desire to control things, from the big things to the little things.  You have to hold your mind open and accept what is happening, as opposed to planning what will happen.]]></description>
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		<title>Punishment and play</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2008 22:23:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Then it was time to get back over the bed for my caning.  I was a bit apprehensive, because the paddle had been worst on one part of my bottom, and that was the very spot where the cane tip was going to tend to land.  But I had my smart-girl thinking-cap on, and decided not to make any suggestions about symmetry.  My right ass-check was just going to have to deal.]]></description>
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