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I’ve just run across a reference to my blog today that I had no idea was out there! The wonderful and talented Thomas S. Roche (whom, honestly, I feel grateful just having gotten to meet and hang out with a few times!) has some very kind words to say about my jottings:

Tragically, in recent years I’ve had to more or less stop reading erotica because I get the same things from reading it that I get from writing it, and if I read it I don’t write it. But I do sometimes read Zille Defeu’s blog and go berserk. Zille likes the spanking. Nonfiction is more of a turn-on for me than fiction when it comes to spanking.

I DO like the spanking! (Also, I am very fond of compliments! Thank you, Thomas!)

I got a really lovely compliment yesterday. I was walking home from grocery shopping. I’d been to the gym, and was sweaty and un-made-up and had put no effort into being sexy – it wasn’t on my mind at the moment, as I was mostly contemplating how heavy the groceries were.

I walked to a street that I usually use on the way home, and saw it was filled with construction workers. I had a moment’s pause, as any woman would, but decided, fuck it – I want to walk this way, and I’m darn well not going to let a bunch of workers stop me!

As I came up to them they noticed me, their conversation died away, and they aimed smiles in my direction. I smiled back at all and sundry, and continued on my way, feeling please for having braved the situation. But my rewards were not yet concluded, because after I’d passed them, they all suddenly broke out into song – something about pretty ladies. Well! That sort of compliment doesn’t happen every day. Hell, that’s more something that only happens in the movies! So I turned around, gave a bow and flourish with my hand – grinning delightedly. They started clapping, and then shouted out further compliments about me, notably about the rear view I was presenting. I grinned all the way home. And I rather imagine there was an extra bit of sashay in my step!

I myself am an “ass woman,” (i.e. – I enjoy checking out other people’s fundaments) so when people appreciate that part of me, it’s lovelier than them complimenting any other part of me. (Well, I don’t mind being told I’m a genius, either, although that happens somewhat less often!) My health hasn’t been great recently, and it’s been really getting me down. But it’s moments like this that can really turn you back around – the next time I feel depressed (or have body images issues!), I need to remember this moment and cherish it.

Here, just because we are on the topic, is a picture I particularly like of my bottom. (Hey – I like to give back!)

Friends Award

(from: toothpastefordinner.com)

Kaya just awarded me with a Friends Award. I feel like I’m up on stage at the Oscars, and I’m trying not to cry and say something like, “And I thank my family, and my fans, but most of all I thank God!”

These blogs are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers.

The Rules to accepting this award: “Deliver this award to eight bloggers who must choose eight more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award.”

Like Kaya, I find that “my problem is in only getting to choose eight out of so many deserving writers”! The following are in no certain order:

1. Miss Maggie Mayhem (And no, sweetie, you’re not just getting this because you’re that kind of friend with benefits!)

2. Adele Haze, whom I think is just So Damn Cool!

3. SpankBoss from Spanking Blog, whom I know I’d have a blast with if we hung out IRL!

4. Thomas S. Roche who always has such cool stuff up on his blog, and who needs to hang out with me now that he can’t claim that his job is making him too busy!

5. Pandora Blake who I don’t know half well-enough, but anyone who wrote this must simply be a friend I haven’t properly met, yet!

6. Abel and Haron at The Spanking Writers, whom I totally need to hang out with sometime when my Master takes us across the pond!

7. Niki Flynn, who wrote the amazing Dances with Werewolves, and who keeps dancing with werewolves and other scary monsters in her “Not Blog.”

8. Fyre’s jewel` (and by extension, Fyre!) I’m not sure when I first met these two awesome people, some years ago now, but they have been a part of my blogging life ever since, and I’m very glad! Well, except for Fyre’s evil puns…! [jewel`'s blog is private, but darn it, I wanted her on my list! So you can all just assume her blog is fabulous!]

I decided when I started this list to leave my LiveJournal friends off, because it made doing the list so much easier (and it’s not an unnatural demarcation, because journals and blogs are different things.) But I’d like to give a “shout out” to all my friends on LJ who write as passionately about their lives as anyone on WordPress or Blogger. There’s too many of you to list, but you know who you are!!!