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Well, I didn’t get punished this weekend, which is a blessing because “that time of the month” started up, but also frustrating because I just want to get the darn thing over with! Whenever we do anything else, sex or play-wise, the spectre of the punishment just looms over the whole thing the whole time. Well, at least for me it does. Of course, at the same time my Master might just be enjoying the piquant pleasure of knowing that I will soon be submitting to his punishment. Sadists, I tell you….

I was a very domestic slave this weekend, cleaning the kitchen and tidying the house, and cooking sausage and mash one night, and then putting the leftover mash on a shepard’s pie the next evening. I’m very particular about my shepard’s pie, so it takes perhaps a bit longer than the time in which some other cooks could prepare it, but my Master made happy noises the whole time he ate it, so that was reward in and of itself.

Sunday we met a friend of a friend, who had come on quite high recommendation. Mistress Katja is a lovely and sparklingly witty girl, and we met for a late lunch and ended up talking until evening snuck upon us. It’s lovely to meet a fellow perv and just be able to talk about anything, and they’ll know what you are talking about, and you don’t have to worry about offending them or freaking them out. We will hopefully be able to do a shoot with her in the future … and as we were making rough plans, I just had this sense of how incredibly lucky I am, that I can meet people like this, have a wonderful meal with them, and then get to work with them. (And she has the cutest mini Chihuahua, who sat on my lap and let me cuddle it for a while!)

It being the San Francisco Bay Area, I did at one point look up from my tea to see a woman in black tights and sequined tap-pants and a big red wig carrying a huge stuffed horse. She walked past, crossed the street, and wandered on … I do wonder what that was all about! I’m not particularly surprised to see anything happen in this city, but I still feel delight at the random strangeness of it all, and the surreal moments that happen here, be it in a dungeon, on the street, or just anywhere and everywhere.

What’s that? You want me to talk about sex? Oh, all right, if you insist!
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The new Kink.com Project: Everything Butt is about rather more than just anal sex, however….

From their site:

Whether you are gay, straight or bi – a man, woman or transsexual – you no doubt have an asshole – and most likely, at some point or another in your life, you have even considered or experimented with it sexually. Anal Sex, butt-fucking, sodomy – whatever you want to call it, you can’t say it doesn’t intrigue you. But unfortunately, using the ‘back door’ or ‘tossing someone’s salad’ can be the kind of sexual activity that many people consider taboo or make incorrect assumptions about. But while naysayers might fear that taking it up the poop-chute is painful, unsanitary, immoral or even barbaric, Hogtied director Lochai was determined to prove to them that it’s anything butt. So he recently gathered a sexy group of authentic anal aficionados together for a test shoot, whose aim was to celebrate and explore the ass in all its glory and splendor. So if you’ve ever been curious about that holiest of holes, now’s your chance to probe a little deeper.

There’s an introductory video there which I think is quite fascinating. I love that the girls have gone beyond perversion and back into a sort of innocent pleasure in their (seemingly boundless) anal delights….

It’s funny where you find images of yourself — and your bottom!

When I visited with the lovely folks at IShotMyself.com, they handed me a little booklet, promoting their company and websites. It’s really well done (I would have given anything to get that design job!) and, lo and behold, it also happens to have two pages devoted to lil’ old me (and my bottom)!

Click on the image below to see it in it’s full glory (opens in new window)…

The image on the right is from the first shoot I did for IShotMyself.com. The one of the left is from a shoot where I shot myself before and after shaving my pubic hair (I’d let it grow in special!) and includes a video of me shaving the bits in question (and then rubbing them with lotion, like you do!)

A number of people have been coming by this blog looking for “MRI sex,” undoubtedly because of the MRI blowjob picture I posted a while ago.

So, if you’ve been looking for that, here is a great link for MRI sex images. Although, sadly, it’s only missionary position (doggie style would seem more useful, to me!) but it does show how a woman’s uterus changes during orgasm, so that’s cool!

But it does open up a number of obviously overlooked scientific studies … MRI images of spankings, caning, figging…. The difference between a tawse and slipper, as shown by MRI results…. You name it, the study of spanking hasn’t even properly begun!

Now where are the spanko scientists out there?! Currently, there’s just crap like this out there. Although this is a nice rebuttal. But still, they are only studies about spanking children, which most spankos are only interested in when they are discussing their own childhood experiences. Where are the studies about spanking consenting adults, I ask you?!

There’s a few unrelated things I’m tossing together in this post…

First, an amusing quote from Abel & Haron:

I love that there was a statue with such specialised miracle powers. ‘The statue is not amused! Thrash them harder!’

Next, an amusing bit of Lolkat-ese from kaya:

Domming. He’s doing it wrong!

Finally, here’s some pictures from Friday night. My Master and I went out to a combination art show and bondage performance. I’m sitting in the background in a number of these pictures, and in all of them, I manage not to be looking at the performance (and I look bored out of my mind, as well!) Really, it was a lovely and unique performance (the rigger suspended the model — and they were BOTH wearing blindfolds!) and I had a great time seeing Lochai , Miss Maggie Mayhem, Thomas Roche, and a number of other cool friends — just perfect to see friends and have a little taste of the local kink scene before going home and dealing with family!

Oh! And since I’m actually posting on a Sunday (my Master is lost to the world, working on the new server he’s building), I get to join in with the My Bottom Smarts Spanko Brunch #153. The question today is:

Have you any special spanking-related plans or wishes for this holiday season? Are there any noteworthy gifts or events in your plans? If not, what would you like to be getting or doing?

Well, we will be stuck at my parent’s house for Christmas, so any spankings that occur will have to be done very quietly – and I’m not generally known for being quiet, so if he does spank me, he has to gruffly order me not to make any noise – and I have to beg to stuff my face in a pillow!

This year there are no directly-related spanking gifts – when we have those, we open them at home before we leave (and of course, try them out!)

One of the best I’ve ever given him was a Weighted Bookmark that has the words, “Regard the weight of words rather than their number” (Cicero) stamped in the leather. I figured it applied not just to words, but to spanks, as well! It’s a good, if nasty, little spanking tool, and very portable – yet is not obviously a spanking implement (except to spankos, who would never use it for anything else!)

But, happily, we will be home in time for New Years, and my perfect way to celebrate it would be for us to drink a lot of champagne (several bottles of our favorite brand have already been laid in!) and have sex and spankings all night long – how better to ring in the New Year?!