Comments on: The story of my Master & me (Part III – An end and a beginning) http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/ fetish and kink, spanking and sex - in words and pictures Thu, 09 Sep 2010 11:18:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Zille Defeu's Fetish Fantasies » The cane: no, really … tell me what you really think! http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-3094 Zille Defeu's Fetish Fantasies » The cane: no, really … tell me what you really think! Sun, 17 May 2009 23:35:28 +0000 http://zilledefeu.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/#comment-3094 [...] those of you who don’t know our history, I was seeing another guy (Bear) in an open relationship when I started seeing my Master. It’s [...] [...] those of you who don’t know our history, I was seeing another guy (Bear) in an open relationship when I started seeing my Master. It’s [...]

]]> By: The story of my Master & me (Part II – The night at Slick) « Zille Defeu’s fetish fantasies http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-164 The story of my Master & me (Part II – The night at Slick) « Zille Defeu’s fetish fantasies Wed, 27 Feb 2008 05:48:41 +0000 http://zilledefeu.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/#comment-164 [...] The music, the flashing lights, and the sensation of his hand on my bottom all mingled, and I was high as kite on it all. He stopped for a moment, and I turned my head up and said, “Thank you, Sir,” and he grabbed my hair, pulled up my head and growled into my ear, “You can call me Master.” [...] [...] The music, the flashing lights, and the sensation of his hand on my bottom all mingled, and I was high as kite on it all. He stopped for a moment, and I turned my head up and said, “Thank you, Sir,” and he grabbed my hair, pulled up my head and growled into my ear, “You can call me Master.” [...]

]]> By: polly_perverse http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-163 polly_perverse Tue, 10 Apr 2007 06:20:40 +0000 http://zilledefeu.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/#comment-163 As always, I appreciate hearing about your perspective on your relationship with Bear. And the way that you write really flows nicely. As always, I appreciate hearing about your perspective on your relationship with Bear. And the way that you write really flows nicely.

]]> By: geltsgirl http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-162 geltsgirl Fri, 06 Apr 2007 22:36:31 +0000 http://zilledefeu.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/#comment-162 Yes, "little nagging sting to the ego" sums it up just right! :) Yes, “little nagging sting to the ego” sums it up just right! :)

]]> By: naohai http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-161 naohai Fri, 06 Apr 2007 22:24:53 +0000 http://zilledefeu.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/#comment-161 <i>It's hard to realize, "Oh, I was holding that person back from being all they could be."</i> I had some of those feelings when I broke up with my last partner from back East, and when he later started a much more successful relationship with his now-wife. I can say with complete honesty that I'm very happy for him and glad that we were both able to move on to better situations. But there's still that little nagging sting to the ego, which is so resistant to admitting undesirability or defeat. It’s hard to realize, “Oh, I was holding
that person back from being all they could be.”

I had some of those feelings when I broke up with my last partner from back East, and when he later started a much more successful relationship with his now-wife.
I can say with complete honesty that I’m very happy for him and glad that we were both able to move on to better situations. But there’s still that little nagging sting to the ego, which is so resistant to admitting undesirability or defeat.

]]> By: geltsgirl http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-160 geltsgirl Fri, 06 Apr 2007 17:41:55 +0000 http://zilledefeu.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/#comment-160 Thank you! Well, I don't really hide anything about myself ... but I didn't write about this when it was happening! I waited until now, when the pain is over and the dust has settled. Thank you!

Well, I don’t really hide anything about myself … but I didn’t write about this when it was happening! I waited until now, when the pain is over and the dust has settled.

]]> By: the_falconer http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/comment-page-1/#comment-159 the_falconer Fri, 06 Apr 2007 10:52:12 +0000 http://zilledefeu.wordpress.com/2007/04/05/the-story-of-my-master-me-part-iii-%e2%80%93-an-end-and-a-beginning/#comment-159 I admire your honesty and openness in putting all of this out there. I don't think I'd be similarly happy to relate the rather tortured story of how I met my girl (even though in that case all the really embarassing stuff happened before we'd ever actually "met"). I'd also just like to say that this - <i> (And, as happy as I am for him, and as glad as I am that I did make the right choice – that realization still stings a bit, because I’d like to think that I’m the best person for everyone, that dating me is the best thing anyone could do with their lives. It’s hard to realize, “Oh, I was holding that person back from being all they could be.” But it just proves that there are really people who are “made for each other,” and Bear and I simply were not.)</i> - really hit home for me. Feel very much the same about when my ex went on to be happier without me. I admire your honesty and openness in putting all of this out there. I don’t think I’d be similarly happy to relate the rather tortured story of how I met my girl (even though in that case all the really embarassing stuff happened before we’d ever actually “met”).

I’d also just like to say that this – (And, as happy as I am for him, and as glad as I am that I did make the right choice – that realization still stings a bit, because I’d like to think that I’m the best person for everyone, that dating me is the best thing anyone could do with their lives. It’s hard to realize, “Oh, I was holding that person back from being all they could be.” But it just proves that there are really people who are “made for each other,” and Bear and I simply were not.) – really hit home for me. Feel very much the same about when my ex went on to be happier without me.

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