And Dave — thank you very much as well. I know you’ve seen a lot of spanking (or otherwise kinky) blogs, so your words mean a lot to me!

dont’ worry about what labels you might fall under or blog categories. just keep doing your thing

Dave.

db — Thank you so much, and you don’t worry — I am addicted to blogging, and cannot do it but honestly and openly!

Paul — You, my friend, are a rarity, and thus precious! (Although, I must say, I’m also spoiled by the other people who have stepped up to respond to this post as well!)

The_Falconer — Thanks for your compliments, and for sticking around, and I’ll keep the Victorian-y design for a future site make-over!

Fyre — awww, you can be so sweet when you’re not teasing me!

And I know most non-Gorean people tend to use Gor-folk as the butt of jokes. It’s just too easy!

The “occasional lesbian tendancies” made me chuckle — thanks, I needed some laughing in my day! I guess no one who reads this blog would believe it, but I did spend seven years in a primary relationship with a woman (she’s the “A.” I refer to on this blog) and was once the queen of lesbian BDSM porn on the internet. If you google “lesbian BDSM,” DarkPlay.net is still number eight on the page (it was in first or second place during the five years with the site *I* maintained the site, mais bien sur!) And if you google my name, you still get results like, “I knew for certain the moment I read her name that Zille Defeu was one of those sexy lesbian vampires,” or, “For real-life Bay Area lesbian couple Alexi and Zille Defeu, making Web porn is a family business.”

For me the most interesting entries are those where you’re talking about D/s in some form – whether that’s the heavy slave stuff or other activities such as Daddy play or spanking. You write very cogently on the topic, and have helped me to work through my own thoughts on the topic at times, which is always appreciated. I’m certainly not “put off” by the other entries though – I’m just less likely to click through when they pop up in my feed.

You are a domistically disciplined spankable little girl latex covered submissive former fetish porn model with occasional lesbian tendancies who blogs for a living that thinks she doesn’t fit in anywhere?

News Flash!

You are really an articulate sexy author who shares aspects of her personal and professional life through your blog for fun (and hopefully profit). You are a real as the rest of us here on the Interweb

Oh yeah, we all diss Gorean high protocol, just ask Alebeard.

I think your blog is win-win for us ADD gnats. So whens the post on anime tentacle porn?

Get well soon, I miss teasing you