I haven’t read all of your archives so if you’ve addressed this topic before please just point me at the entry. I’d be interested in hearing your perspective, since you always express yourself so well, on why this kind of service-oriented relationship is so fulfilling to you, all the way down to the mundanity of cleaning the kitchen until it shines. I have some understanding of why people like receiving pain (though I don’t really lean that way myself) but I have to drag myself kicking and screaming to do my own dishes, never mind about someone else’s. I can see the drudgery but not the reward.
I haven’t read all of your archives so if you’ve addressed this topic before please just point me at the entry. I’d be interested in hearing your perspective, since you always express yourself so well, on why this kind of service-oriented relationship is so fulfilling to you, all the way down to the mundanity of cleaning the kitchen until it shines. I have some understanding of why people like receiving pain (though I don’t really lean that way myself) but I have to drag myself kicking and screaming to do my own dishes, never mind about someone else’s. I can see the drudgery but not the reward.
Notice how many voyeurs there are here?
Will do! Actually, it will tie in perfectly to my first planned part of the “How I became kinky” series.
Thanks for such a thoughtful response!
Well, this *IS* LJ, after all! [grins]
I think the voyeurs will probably be satisfied with whatever I give them! But the masses have spoken, so I’ll do the “peek into my past” first of all!